I've contacted a couple of publishers who are currently accepting game submissions but I get the same replay "We don't accept any submission over email, we only take in-person submissions at select conventions."
That's all fine and good but what conventions!? They don't have an even calandar on their site and I feel as thought I'm always 1 step beind when it comes to conventions because there isn't a site (not even BGG) that has an entie even calandar for all conventions in different areas (including local).
What should I do?
Yeah James Mathe has similar advice. Here's his post about contacting a publisher http://www.jamesmathe.com/courting-a-game-publisher-dos-and-donts/